Does it make sense??

We have absolutely NO choice about when we should come into this world...from a single cell into a living breathing person with about 37 trillion cells which does ALL the growing by itself,  and we are pushed into life WITHOUT our consent, and then we are expected to learn how to cope with life ourselves and take responsibility for anything that happens to us till we leave this world ....now, does that make any sense to you!? What kind of arrangement is that? No matter how many scientists get together and work for another million years will not be able explain why this is happening..

While the Universe has been created approximately 14 billion years ago....we human beings are only given less then 100 years each to experience and discover ALL that has been happening and by the time we grow out of childhood and even start wondering, we are done with life halfway!! Then we are expected to carry forward our search into the next life....(that is if you believe in reincarnation of course, otherwise you are done...you leave without knowing head or tail about life) Does that make any sense to you?? Even a thousand yogis may not be able justify this system. They may create a theory for everything but the question remains....WHY?? 

Why put human beings on Earth if everything we do is ruining the system? We have abused Earth with pollution and have ruined nature in every way! If Earth can do better without us...why put us here!? We say, the universe is realising ITself through us, without us theres no one to see it, admire it or love it! Fine, then what? Destroy it?? If nature had such intelligence to create a living being just to be able to see itself through our senses....then why did it not pack us ALL with the sense of love to keep Earth safe and not be so greedy and selfish? Why not create a more responsible species? Why create such morons who will build their "Homes" by destroying nature!! 

Does that make sense to you?

So, my point is...nothing about life really makes sense...it is just there to be loved, experienced and lived as it is. The whole beauty is in the LIVING it ALL. So we need to stop trying to find meaning to everything about life. We are wasting precious time by creating theories after theories about life. Stop following systems and theories and simply live life as it is! Whatever comes naturally is the only SENSE i can think of. And what comes naturally is LOVE. We are so concerned about meanings and theories that we forget to LOVE! People are more comfortable saying they hate someone compared to saying they love someone?? Why? Because they have theories like...you will get hurt when you love. But then how healthy do you feel by hating someone??? 

It is our nature to love! When we forget that, usually we are in trouble. We make our lives more miserable with all the hatred we carry. Give LOVE a chance!  After all life doesn't make any sense..why are we SO serious about everything! We are not going to be here forever....while we are here lets make this place a little more joyful, and lets leave life a little more colourful then it was before we came into the picture...at least then, it might make some sense :) 

When joy is possible :)

Most people are looking for joy as though it is a hidden treasure and meant to be never found. They think its impossible to find joy in the world full of miseries. When you tell them joy is possible...they come up with a thousand reasons to prove you wrong...like.."you have no idea what i am going through" being the most popular respond. Yes of course..but then i too can say the same thing to you cant i? So, how is it possible for some to stay joyful while others are dragging not only themselves but everyone on their way, through hell. 

First of all stop assuming that those who stay joyful have no problems in their lives...don't be surprised if they have bigger problems then you have. 

Then, observe and learn from them, stop questioning everything and just pay attention to what they do.

Stop assuming that people who are joyful are just pretending while they are suffering alone! Not everyone is as miserable as you think they are.......some have simply transcended misery!!

JOY for real is POSSIBLE!! First you have to BELIEVE! 

Then you have to let JOY HAPPEN to you. Stop chasing after it, stop being so restless. Let life happen....give it a chance and you will be surprised at what speed it brings you JOY!

If you have no idea what i am talking about then do these:

Think of everything you love..no matter what is going on in your life at this very moment. Let it be and just day dream of everything you love....icecream..chocolates..sarees...books...lipstick....kids...music...movies...flowers....whatever it is...as long as you absolutely LOVE it! Not just like it but LOVE it to the core!! Whatever it is for you...whether or not you are having it now, just feel it and enjoy the feeling!  

Train yourself to talk about everything you love when you are having a conversation with friends or family instead of all the miseries you are going through. 

Pay attention to everything you love while you are going through your daily routine. For example If you happen to see someone wearing your favourite color at work...admire it. Love it and feel it!

If you keep doing this....after sometime it becomes a habit. And you will suddenly find everything around you cheerful. Then, suddenly something you love comes to you like magic. For those of you who have read The Secret...this is not new...but just reading isn't enough...do it! It worked for me! it will work for you! 

Just let go and trust life...

When i learnt how to let go and surrender to the moment, life brought me to places i never imagined i would reach! And i don't mean physically...but through the journey within me.  

To the realms where JOY is POSSIBLE! When nothing on the outside can touch it...where you are dancing with life! Where you could feel life breathing through you!! 

Everything i love happening at once..and leaving me breathless each time! Such joy cannot be chased after ...it happens of its own accord. Just like how you cant force a bud to bloom...nature has a way to make things happen. And it does it beautifully! If only we stop getting in its way....